forwarded...Dear Ref Doctor,Centering at a local tournament...7 and under colored belts...boys.There was a yng man at the tournament in this group who was considerably larger than the other boys. Tournament was having a hard time finding a match for him, parents didn't want him fighting older boys his size. By age he belonged in the 7 and under group...I was asked to please fit him in.
His match showed up in the middle of the bracket. There was such a size disparity I was on the point ofcanceling the match, but the coach of the smaller competitor insisted that his player was ready to go...everyone was ok with it, so I decided to give them a chance and watch very closely ready to stop and cancel at any time.
The smaller player turned out to be quicker and more aggressive. The larger young man had to be a foot taller...he was using his size and body weight to push the smaller fighter around the ring...I warned him, and then kyungoed him for it. Whilebeing pushed backward, the little guy extended his open hands against his competitors hogoo...pushed off while being pushed backward, and scored several times with double kicks. I did not warn him or kyungo him for pushing as I felthe was reacting to being pushed and also he did not displace his competitor by a push in the slightest, quite the opposite. The little guy was getting his kicks up to the other player's hogoo and getting enough power and accuracy to warrant earning points for it. The larger player's first few kicks were low, the little guy was taking a beating on his lower legs... I warned for low kicks, and then followed with a kyungo for repeated acts.
The larger young man seemed amused and admiring of the fight in the tiny player and showed no desire to try to hithim very hard...he seemed like a "gentle giant" and a very nice young man. The small competitor won the match. It was all fairly tame, and I in no way felt either competitor was in any danger, although I stayed close and monitored intently.
Just before the end of the match, the coach of the larger player got very upset and raised his hand. I stopped the match and listened to him...he felt that both players should have been kyungoed for pushing and that I had been unfair to his competitor. I listened to him, disagreed with him and finished the match. He jumped up several more times, repeating what he had stated before. I brought in the referee chair, and the coach repeated himself again.
The coach never was satisfied, and I thought very hard about the match...wondering if I was SO concerned for the safety of the tiny player that I was overprotective of him...but other than pushing off with his arms as he was being bulldozed backward around the ring, he fought very clean and showed no fear or hesitation.
Should I have called him for pushing? Should I have just refused to consider allowing the larger young man to compete at all on the grounds of a mismatch (non-sanctioned local tournament)?
My understanding is safety first, then fairness to both competitors, then managing the match so as to encourage clean and correct fighting according to the rules.
Should I have handled this differently?Susan Lewis
Forwarding from Susan...
Thank you Ref Doctor!This is exactly why I questioned myself on this match. Pushing, holding, and grabbing is so common...really seeing what you are looking at and making a confident, split-second decision correctly is the art. Understanding pushing is the question here...if I see an obvious, displacing, open-handed push, followed by a kick that scores...I am to annul the point and give the penalty. What about the double-fisted pushoff followed by a kick that scores...I've been told that is ok? Any open-handed push is a push, even if it is reactive to being pushed? What about a player that is pushing back as their competitor propells them out of the ring...pushing with the trunk vs. pushing with the open hands? Do I give them both the pushing penalty and then penalize the one pushed out with crossing the boundary line? Or does one cancel out the other and I should be more concerned with not overly impeding the momentum of the match?Susan Lewis
Dear Ref Doctor...wonderful prescription...wow do I feel better! Thank you for hanging up your shingle. This is a needed and valuable forum.
Susan Lewis
Your kind and encouraging words are deeply appreciated. The goal has always been to serve and to grow. To be useful, competent, and dependable as soon as possible, and for as long as possible. Thank you and all of our high level referee leadership for the wonderful training, mentoring, and kindness in and out of the ring. It is a privilege to work for you and serve with you.