Dear Referee Doctor,
Packing for Dallas NQ, I am going over in my mind rules and regs and scenarios...some things seem to require revisiting, as they are so much more than words in a referee manual. I have enjoyed so much your excellent explanations on this site, and tend to copy and review them. Could you give us a more in-depth definition on "legal" clinching versus illegal "holding"...and how to decide how long to let in-fighters tussle to fight-out and score....it seems like I often patiently wait awhile to let them "fight out", only to decide it's time to separate them...and that's the exact moment someone jumps out and kicks just as my kal-yeo is being voiced. Ugg. Also, on the head kick using Junior Safety Rules...I have heard "a touch or a brush" and/or "it should not move the head". But, in practice, I find it kinda depends on the fighters...I so want to be completely fair to both, and objective...but a tough young man that is not even rocked by a pop on the head...I tend to let them keep fighting: on the other hand, if it is really close to a mis-match and the weaker player is getting his ribs cracked by a stronger, faster, more aggressive competitor...a medium hard...60% too hard blow to the head will get a -1 and a quiet "it's a little too hard, let's gentle up on the head please" from me. Safety first, but true fairness, professionalism, and understanding and compensating for and overcoming your weaknesses as a referee are very important too. I would appreciate very much your insights on these matters.
Thank you,
Susan Lewis
Dear Ref Doctor,
Your counsel, as usual, is invaluable. Thank you for sharing your depth of knowledge and experience with all of us in this unique forum. I hope more and more patients crowd into your waiting room.